Date Ghosting You? Here Are 5 Signs To Find Out!

Picture this: you're vibing with someone new, right? You've had a couple of dates, shared a few laughs, and maybe even got a little starry-eyed. Things are looking good. But then, out of the blue, they vanish into thin air. Poof! You've been ghosted.

Now, I'm no stranger to this rollercoaster ride of emotions. There have been times when I thought I'd found "the one," only to be left wondering if I accidentally turned invisible. I mean, seriously, what gives? 

It's like playing detective trying to figure out what went wrong. Was it something I said? Did they get abducted by aliens?

But hey, if you've ever felt that gut-wrenching sting of being ghosted, you're not alone my friend. 

Let’s cut the crap and find out five signs she might be ghosting you and what you can do about it!

Late Replies

When she consistently replies late, it can indicate a lack of prioritisation. Sure, we all get busy from time to time, but if it becomes a pattern, it might suggest that you're not high on their list of priorities. 

Respect for each other's time is crucial in any relationship. It's about balance. If you're consistently waiting around for a response while they seem to have all the time in the world for everything else, it might be time to reassess.

What can you do about it?

There are three things you can do in this situation:

• Talk to her and check if she’s interested in you or not.

Waiting for someone is boring and exhausting. While you’re waiting for her to revert back, make sure you focus on your hobbies and interests. 

• You shouldn’t be waiting for someone who is okay to keep you waiting till eternity. 

• Consider moving on from them and find someone else who is compatible with you.

Emoji Overload

Emojis can be fun and expressive, but when they start to replace actual conversation, it's a red flag. 

We get it, people these days tend to overload conversations with emojis, which is sometimes off putting. 

If her messages are becoming more symbols than substance, it could indicate a lack of engagement or effort in the conversation. 

Communication is vital to any relationship, and if it feels like you're deciphering messages Instead of having a meaningful exchange, it's worth questioning whether this is the kind of interaction you want in a partner.

It’s simple, you need to ask her to be a better communicator. 

Now, this might not work if she’s willing to ditch you. 

In this situation, you can subtly put it out there for her to understand that she needs to put real effort and use words to continue talking to you.

Avoiding Calls

Communication goes beyond texting or messaging. If she's avoiding your calls, it could be a sign that she's not interested in truly connecting or investing time in the relationship. 

Maybe she's uncomfortable with confrontation or maybe she's just not that into it anymore. Either way, if she's dodging your calls it might be time to reconsider whether this relationship is worth pursuing.

Shallow Conversations

Meaningful conversations are the heartbeat of any relationship. If your interactions feel more like surface-level small talk than deep, it might be a sign that there's not much substance to the relationship. 

You deserve someone who's willing to dive deep with you, who's interested in your thoughts, feelings, and dreams, not just in talking about themselves.

Now, it's essential to remember that confrontation isn't easy for everyone. However, avoiding it altogether can be damaging to the relationship. 

If she's consistently dodging difficult conversations or sweeping issues under the rug, it's a sign that she might not be mature enough to handle the ups and downs of a relationship. 

Communication is key, and if she's not willing to engage in honest, open dialogue, it might be time to move on.

Remember, you deserve someone who values you, your time, and your feelings. It's not about being better than her; it's about recognizing your worth and refusing to settle for anything less than you deserve. 

So, if you find yourself in a situation like this, have the courage to walk away. It's not easy, but it's necessary for your own happiness and well-being. 

And who knows? The right person, someone who truly appreciates you for who you are, might be just around the corner.